monique

Just wanted to thank you for visiting my aidpage and wish you luck as you start to get back to pre-abusive marriage. It is such a difficult task, but do remember that many of us have been there and understand what a problem it is to get out. This morning I sent a friend of mine and her daughter out of state at 5 a.m. after they spent the night here while he was at work. We packed the car clear full, leaving just enough room for driver and passenger. She took only pics of her children and grandchildren, a few clothes for them and left all the furniture, the house, the entire bank account except for $350. for expenses to get her to where she is going. She was way more than fair to this jerk. There is 10 thousand in a joint bank account--I sure would have taken half of it. At any rate, she did take the new car he bought for her, but it will end up being re-po'd because the pmt. on it is like $450. a month. Everything is in both their names, so she is leaving her home, her job, her friends, her furniture, everything...she and her young daughter just walked away--it is that bad! I don't think many people understand how a person can walk away from their whole life, but were they in that sort of a situation, they could. Good Luck. I will pray that things work out for you and of course will keep trying to open the eyes of the general public as to abuse and the signs to watch for. grandmasteph.